boys wear blue, girls wear pink.

By Shiny

I've had a reason to walk into baby shops - those places that sell prams, cots, breast pumps, and baby clothes.

The boy section has many very cute, very practical, outfits.

The girls section is a retina burn out zone of pink pink pink. There are even pink hipster pants so the nappies show. Sexualisation at 3 months old!

You don't find any pink in the boys section - nothing - not a single piece of pink to be found.

In NZ today, baby boys wear blue, baby girls wear pink.

Pink has only been associated with females since about the 1950s - any genetic or hormonal "girls like pink" claim is bollocks. It's a modern societal constraint.

In the 1900s pink was commonly considered a colour for boys, being a gentler version of the maculine bright red. Light blue was associated with virgin mary, female virgins and baby girls. It should be noted this wasn't nearly as ingrained as todays "pink for girls, and only for girls" culture.

It wasn't until the 1950s that the cololurs swapped. It's often attributed to the Nazi use of an inverted pink triangle to mark male homosexuals in concentration camps.. It was also considered a communits colour (e.g. pinko). Strong willed/masculine women were once called "Pink Ladies", in recognition of their not adhering to their gender roles.

The colours swapped, slowly, so by the 1960s pink had become a feminine colour.

Fast forward to today, and it's gone insane. It's so firmly ingrained in our culture we don't give a second thought to this bright labelling of girls in hot pink, and boys never ever daring to wear pink. (with the occasional exception of an enlightened parent or insistent child). The girls section in clothing or toys shops abound with pink pink pink pink pink!

Do we do this so we don't confuse boys and girls, and accidently treat a child in a way inappropiate for their gender?

Dress a baby in the wrong colour, and the child will be often assumed to be the opposite gender - correct the commenter and you'll be questioned: "but why are they wearing [pink|blue]?". It's a shock for some people to see a parent do something so awful as not label their child's gender for the world to see.

oh noes! If you dress a boy in pink they might turn out gay? how silly. everyone knows you can only suddenly become gay by drinking soymilk.

I have heard the claim "my daughter picked pink all on her own" - While it's possible they do indeed like pink, I'm confident there's more to their daughter's assertion - unless the parent believes their daughter has no contact with the world, no contact with other children, or adults other than their parents.

We're going backwards. We're re-enforcing "Girls do this", "Boys do that", right from day one.

10 comments

By psycik (not verified)
30 weeks 15 hours ago

Try going into some the other

Try going into some the other shops (TT's for example) and 90% of the shop is dedicated to girls, and the rest to boys... Girls like to shop much at 3 mths old?

By Mary (not verified)
30 weeks 12 hours ago

Have you got citations on the

Have you got citations on the "it swapped in 20C due to Nazi use" thing? I saw the image you linked on Twitter but I don't think it itself cited anything meaningful. It's not that I believe it's genetic either, but I know of at least one reference much much earlier than that.

Little Women (the part usually published as "Good Wives" in the Commonwealth), originally published 1869:

"Amy put a blue ribbon on the boy and a pink on the girl, French fashion, so you can always tell..." said wicked Jo.

By Shiny
30 weeks 11 hours ago

I typoed the hyperlink -

I typoed the hyperlink - fixed now
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pink_triangle
it only refers to the pink triangle though.

There's some good citations on this article on Pink in Gender:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pink#Pink_in_gender

I can find no plausible link between the two - or any reason for the swap of colours between genders. Still searching.

By rayna (not verified)
30 weeks 10 hours ago

And don't even think you can

And don't even think you can avoid it by going and making your own clothes. The gender stereotyping in childrens fabrics are so, so, so much worse..

By Mary (not verified)
30 weeks 8 hours ago

Thanks, I oddly didn't think

Thanks, I oddly didn't think of Wikipedia. I will click around. I wonder if the "French fashion" thing Louisa May Alcott referred to in passing has any other reference points.

By Andrew McMillan (not verified)
30 weeks 8 hours ago

Heather informs me that

Heather informs me that "pink" as a colour did not appear until 18th century according to our 'compact' OED - prior to that it referred to a yellowish or greenish-yellow pigment!

One page - http://www.colormatters.com/colors_pink.html - seems well-researched on the matter, indicating that perhaps the book "When Blue Meant Yellow" by Jean Heifetz might be a good deeper reference on the subject. Some of the best references might also be portraits of children through the ages since colour photography obviously wasn't a possibility.

On the other hand I wonder if you really should be complaining about function rather than colour. Does the it really matter whether they're pinkjeans or bluejeans, so long as they are hard-wearing and comfortable?

Cheers,
Andrew.

PS. Just for funsies, it seems that Max enjoys this colour terminology and has decided that he will now refer to 'greenish-yellow' as 'OED pink' :-)

By xurizaemon (not verified)
22 weeks 5 days ago

Hunter's favourite colours

Hunter's favourite colours are pink and purple. We're not too fussed about this, even though with long curly blond hair and the occasional pair of purple sparkly gumboots people who don't know him say I have a lovely daughter as often as not. The confusion is in their minds, and he doesn't give a rats about it as far as I can tell.

Even I had my limit one day though - he was quite enamoured of the sandals on the right, but I got the ones which wouldn't fill up with sand. But his purple sparkly gumboots, they are both practical and cool, and I'm jealous.

By Grace (not verified)
21 weeks 1 day ago

Great post. I'm attempting a

Great post.
I'm attempting a similar article for a University journalism paper.
One thing to note though- impressionable little girls shopping for personality traits are offered examples of tree climbing, overall wearing tomboys to quote and copy, painting themselves by numbers with the choice of being the girly well spoken Olsen twin or her counter.
Meanwhile, little boys who like Miley Cyris are big smelly girls.
Thoughts?

By Kerrigan (not verified)
20 weeks 1 day ago

As a child, I used to be very

As a child, I used to be very confused by the vast pink area on maps: pink, of course, being the traditional colour of the British Empire. Eventually I decided it was because Queen Victoria was a girl. So it was because half the world was conquered in her name, when actually it was just a printing convention

Anyone else noticed that this infantilised pink is also used for Breast Cancer Awareness whatever? It weirds me out. Not shocking pink, or red-pink, or whatever, but aw cute baby girl sugar and spice pink.

By Anonymous (not verified)
12 weeks 2 days ago

And don't even think you can

And don't even think you can avoid it by going and making your own clothes. The gender stereotyping in childrens fabrics are so, so, so much worse. Women's Dresses

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